Behind the Veils of Yemen

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Women began to arrive in the entry hall, peeling away their black outer coverings. I watched in amazement as shimmering bodies emerged from the black shrouds. One woman sparkled in a purple silk caftan, her arms gleaming with gold jewelry. I smiled to myself. If people only knew what was under those veils. I looked at their faces, artfully painted with makeup, not at all how they appeared in public: dark eyes in narrow black slits. They were like the beauties of Arab folklore. I was awed by the transformation.

With only prayer and a faith that always seemed too small, Audra Grace Shelby departed with her husband and children on a one-way flight to Yemen...deep into the heart of conservative Islam.

With honesty and passion, she shares her harrowing journey as a Christian woman thrust into a culture dangerously different from her own. From the friendships she forged, to her gnawing doubt and fear, to her offers of hope when her new friends' religion failed them, she gives us glimpses of a world most have never seen: behind the veils of real Muslim women--and how the grace of God touches lives in the midst of an Islamic stronghold.

My Thought:

What an amazing story! I have a heart for missions and after reading this book I feel differently for those who go in behind the walls of a closed nation. These missionaries need to be bathed in prayer every day. Reading about the dangers and the prejudice situations that these missionaries may face is heart wrenching. Audra Grace Shelby tells the story of how her family becomes missionaries to Yemen.  She describes the cultural and religious traditions among the Muslims.  She goes on to tell how she was able to use the Muslim prayer time to show ladies that she too, prays but in a different manner and to a God that is alive and hears her prayers.  Audra also introduces the reader to her language tutor who at first is not willing to hear about Jesus. But after giving birth to a son with physical problems, Audra is allowed to pray for this tiny boy. 

Audra is an excellent writer. She describes the scenes to where the reader can visualize what is being read.  She goes in detail about traditions of how the women are treated. She mentions a couple of times questions that she asked in prayer, “Lord, if I had been raised to believe Islam, would I believe Mohammed  to be God’s messenger as strongly as I believe Jesus is the Messiah?” and “If I had been raised  to believe Islam, would I be a devout Muslim instead of a devout Christian? Was the difference only in what we had been taught?”. These were questions that arose in Audra’s heart while dealing with the Yemeni women. These women are so devout in their religion but yet they are fearful of things around them, such a sad way to live. During the times she was asking these questions, the Lord was able to show Himself to Audra.

This is a must read book for everyone, whether you are in the process of becoming a missionary or one of the many who are at home praying for those who are sent out to work. The book gives more insight on how the Muslim people believe. It opened my eyes even more on how much these people need the Saviour.


 I received this book for free from Bethany House in return for my honest opinion.





795184: Behind the Veils of Yemen: How an American Woman Risked Her Life, Family, and Faith to Bring Jesus to Muslim Women Behind the Veils of Yemen: How an American Woman Risked Her Life, Family, and Faith to Bring Jesus to Muslim Women

By Audra Grace Shelby / Chosen Books


When Shelby and her husband answered God's call to minister in the Middle East, she was fearful---and wondered how God would use her to bring Jesus to conservative Muslims. Offering an eye-opening look at life for Yemeni women, she tells about the friendships she forged and how God's grace touched lives in the heart of Islam. 272 pages, softcover from Chosen.

When God Makes Lemonade a Review



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When God Makes Lemonade

I bet you could use a little good news right about now. We have just the book for you! In God Makes Lemonade™ you'll read stories from everyday folks  who discover unexpected sweetness in the midst of sour circumstances.

Some of these real-life stories are laugh-out-loud funny, others are sobering, and more than a few will have you reaching for a tissue. We sure did!

But these true stories all have one thing in common: hope.
There's no question that life gives us "lemons," like issues with health, employment, and relationships-truly sour circumstances we wouldn't wish on anyone. But when those lemons become lemonade, it's as refreshing as an ice-cold drink on a hot summer day.


About the Author 
Don Jacobson's twenty-five years in publishing included serving as the president and owner of Multnomah Publishers, where he oversaw the production of more than 1000 titles, including the five-million-plus-selling series Stories for the Heart. He's had the pleasure of working with such best-selling authors as Randy Alcorn, Joni Eareckson Tada, Henry Blackaby, Robin Jones Gunn, Karen Kingsbury, Andy Stanley, and Bruce Wilkinson. Don's wife, Brenda, has been mentoring mothers for more than a decade.

Jacobson and his wife are passionate about helping single mothers and their children, so the royalties from God Makes Lemonade will benefit these unsung heroes through the LemonAid Foundation.



My Thoughts 

When God Makes Lemonade is a very sweet book. If you are a little sappy like me, you'll need a box of tissues. The book is full of inspirational stories of families that overcame hardships. We all face situations in our lives and we tend to bury ourselves in our self pity party. The true stories that are compiled together, show that we are not the only ones facing difficult times.  Just to name a few of my favorite stories ~ Held By Love, Can I Call You Mom?, and Katie's Gift. 


I received this book for free from Glass Road Publications, in return for my honest opinion.


964701: When God Makes Lemonade: True Stories That Amaze &  Encourage When God Makes Lemonade: True Stories That Amaze & Encourage

By Don Jacobson / Thomas Nelson


* Unemployment, health problems, heartbreak . . . Sooner or later, we all encounter life's "lemons." Publishing executive Jacobson shows how in God's hands, they can become lemonade! In this encouraging collection of true-life stories, he introduces a resilient bunch of "everyday folks" who discover unexpected sweetness in the midst of sour circumstances. 176 pages, softcover from Nelson.

A Fitted Title - Folding Fitted Sheets

When my husband and I were first married, I was at a loss on folding fitted sheets. I was never taught how to "fold" fold them, I was taught how to "roll" them. Yeah, you know what I'm talking about. You have everything nice and neat in the linen closet and then all of a sudden you see that horrible eyesore.


After I found out I was expecting,  a friend and I were talking about getting the nursery ready. I admitted that I could not fold fitted sheets and I had several newly washed baby bed sheets that just would not stay together in the drawer.  My sweet friend, told me that she could me teach how, all I had to do was bring a sheet to school.  So I did. After work the next  day, she laid the sheet out on her desk and began showing me how to fold the sheet. At first I was a little skeptical, she continued on folding. I was amazed at how the little bundle of untidiness became a neatly folded package.  I had my turn at it. A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! H-A-L-L-E-L-U-J-A-H-!!! I heard the angels singing when I finished. I couldn't believe how easy that was.

I know that there is someone out there who is still fighting the battle with the fitted sheet. STOP! There is no need for it. It's super easy and it doesn't take any extra time. Well, it does if you are the guy in the video. He must be a perfectionist!

There are tons of videos on how to fold a fitted sheet. Of all the ones that I watched for this post, this is probably the easiest to understand and follow along.


A Bragging Moment

This year for our son's birthday, my husband shot some photos of him.   I love watching my husband work. When he is shooting, he is a perfectionist. Photography is a God given talent for him.



 
He learned all the techniques while using film. When digital cameras started popping up, he swore he would never have one, since the cameras are designed to do all the work for the eye.  It's funny how we eat our words, some times. My husband does have a digital camera, in fact he has two. I've been tinkering with learning and all I can say is, I don't have it, not like he does. I'm so thankful for my PHD (push here dummy) camera, even if my pictures don't turn out like his. ~


New Changes: Independence

I love being a home educating mom! It's the best thing that we've done for our family. Not too long ago, I was asked what we do for our school at the 6th grade level. This person was trying to see if they were up to where she thought they need to be. Now, that I look back on what I told her, I began wondering if we were where we needed to be. 




It's funny how when you really look at what you're doing, and you begin to doubt yourself. Actually, it's not funny and it's something that I really dislike!

After spending some time on  The Homeschool Lounge last week, I began to see a little something that I need to try and work on and that is independence.  Just a little plug for THL, if you are a home educating mom and you are not a member there, I highly recommend it. I've learned so much from other moms who are just like me, trying to do what is best for our children. There are many groups that pertain to so many different things, you'll find just the right one or two or three.**I'm not being paid for this.**

 Now, back to the independence ~ I'm an involved Momma. I like to be sure the work is being completed before the end of the day and I like to know immediately if there is some "not understanding" going on. For me, that meant for every subject, I was right there ~ involved. As of today, that has changed. I was going to try and start this in January but I thought about it over the weekend, I decided I needed to just go for it. So I got a few folders and began working on Sunday afternoon.  Here is what our day looks like now.

Together Time

Bible ~ We pray and read the Bible along with our verse memorization. At the moment we are reading through the book of John and we are working on Different by Design written by Cary Schmidt. We were given this book by our new church. The teen group is working on it on Sundays and there is a family section that goes with each lesson. So I'm able to be involved in this.

Language Arts ~ We are still using Learning Language Arts Through Literature and we love it! We work together on the grammar and the book study. This is the main book that I read aloud. The books in this year's lessons, I've never read, so I'm enjoying reading them out loud. I'm also reading classic out loud. As for our reading...I don't pick books for my son to read. I allow him to pick the books. I want him to learn to love reading and if I pick the book, then it may not be something that is pleasing to him. I want him to read something that he likes. I do have a list of books I'm compiling that might spark an interest. He will have to hold the book and decide if it is for him. Spelling changed rather quickly! I felt my son was having problems with spelling, so I purchased Sequential Spelling. Well, that was the wrong thing to do. I was asked, "Momma, am I such a bad speller, that I need this. This is something that a kindergartener would do." Let's just say that I put that book quickly away. We are using an online spelling list along with Spelling City. I'm also using Winston Grammar three days a week as an added kick to our grammar.

Writing ~ I scrapped the Writing Strands book. It was all me ~ I did not care for this way of teaching. Good writing is complicated enough for a lot of people and it's not easy for my son. So I went back to the trusty concept map and note cards and allowing him to write on a topic that he chooses to learn more about.

Activities/Experiments ~We spend time working on the activity pages in our Science Journal and anything else that sparks an interest.

Review Time ~ At the end of our school hours, we spend a few minutes reviewing over what was read in History and Science. I also use this time to go over our maps, historical documents and review for any quizzes or tests.

Independent Time

This is what I have a hard time with.  I like to be the one teaching these subjects.

Math we use Teaching Textbooks. I'm not actually involved, but I can be if needed. (Not so bad)

History and Science I assign the daily pages that need to be read and questions that need to be answered. This is not too bad for History, since we are using Abeka and they have comprehension checks throughout the chapter.  Science is another thing, we use Apologia Young Explorer Series and there are not really any questions throughout the chapter, since they have a narration section after so many sections.The review questions are at the end of the chapter. Because of this, I come up with my own questions. Both History and Science have a folder where questions are answered and kept until the end of the week, when I remove them and place them in the BIG folder, where I store all the papers for the year.

Copywork/Penmanship  is very similar to the other two. I have a folder with the papers ready for the week.

I have an assignment form that is filled in every morning and all my son has to do is check off what is completed and he can bring me his work and the form when he is finished. You can see it HERE.

I was faced with a little resistance this morning with the new changes. It was quickly nipped and our day went smoothly.

I will admit, I don't care for change, I can see my son is the same way. But our school day went quickly and I see that this change is a good thing.

A Little Find

We've not had a lot going on here at home. Just our same old routine. But I'm sharing a picture of what my husband and I found on Saturday evening. The trees are still full of the pods not quite ready to open. If I can keep the squirrel neighbors from stealing them all, I should have a nice collection of pecans.  I can't wait for an afternoon with some added snake boots to tromp through the woods behind our house to the Big Daddy of all pecan trees. ~This tree is HUGE!


The Homeschool Mother's Journal

In my life this week…

How can I say this without it being negative ~ I hate going back to school after a week long break! There, I said it. There is no way around not being negative with that statement.  I am not one of these perky moms who looks at everything  with a smile on her face and ready to face the world. Are they even normal? I think they are a breed all their own. Really, I'm a normal mom who has a ton of things going on in her life and having a week off from something frees up so much time for all the other things, I really like that extra time. This was the case at our home this week, it was almost like the first day of school all over again.




In our homeschool this week…

We've had a good week. We started off a little bumpy but it ended up a smooth ride.  Thankfully, it's now over with a new week on the horizon.

My favorite thing this week was…

Celebrating my son's twelfth birthday. It's hard to believe that he is already 12, and taller than me by about 2 inches and I'm 5'4".

Things I’m working on…

I'm still working on my Prayer/Devotion journal. I have the background image all set and some of the pages ready. I've been working on the divider pages, trying to set the tabs in the correct place without too much overlapping is not quite that easy. Hopefully, it will be finished soon. I'm also working on an adorable little knitted cap.

I’m reading…

I'm working on two books at the moment both are for reviews. God Makes Lemonade by Don Jacobson and The House of Hope by Elisabeth Gifford.

I’m cooking… 

I found HUGE baking potatoes at the store last weekend. So we are having a potato bar for our supper tonight.  YEE HAW!! Super EASY!

I’m grateful for…

I'm thankful for answered prayers. My husband was able to move to another contractor  with his job this week.  It's a blessing to see that he is not hating his job any longer.

I’m praying for…

We are now praying for the Lord to open the door for us to move closer to our church. We want to be in the half way area of church and my husband's job. Forty miles (one way)to church on Sunday is not so bad, but when you think about driving it for both Sunday morning and Sunday night, it becomes a nightmare on the gas budget. We are having to be creative for the afternoons, so we don't have to drive back and forth.

Twelve Years Ago

I remember this day twelve years ago, quite clearly.




To begin with I need to tell you what happened on October 5th ~I sent your Daddy off to work, I laid down to take a nap. When I awoke, I washed the breakfast dishes and did some light house keeping. I ate a can of Spaghetti O's for lunch ( I ate those all the time, no wonder you like them so much!) and I went to Walmart to pick up a layaway. 

While waiting in line, a man asked me, "How much longer?" I told him, I didn't know, since I just walked up. He laughed and said (while pointing) "When's the baby due?"  I told him that he was due in two days. The lady behind him, piped up with, "You won't be waiting that long." We all talked back and forth while waiting for our turn in line.

I cooked supper for myself and Daddy. After supper, we walked around the neighborhood. When we got back home, we ate some ice cream. I added sour cream and onion chips to my chocolate ice cream. It was a crazy concoction that your Aunt Lisa and I came up with when we were younger. Something that I've passed on to you. Of course, you have an odd creation of your own ~ Peanut Butter & Jelly, Mayonnaise and Pickle sandwiches. Hopefully, you'll be able to pass it on to your children one day.

Later that night I was admitted into the hospital in labor. (Daddy swears it was from the ice cream and chips.) I spent all day October 6th walking and resting, waiting on you. Finally at 11:57 that night, you were born. You were the most beautiful baby I had ever seen. Daddy and I couldn't get enough of you. It was the first time, I ever saw your Daddy cry. He was so happy! When Granny and PawPaw came in to hold you, they both said that you were the prettiest of all the grand children at this age. They could not believe how beautiful your head and skin color was. They talked about the peach fuzz on your head. Really, there wasn't much, but you weren't an onion head! That's what PawPaw always called babies with no hair.

Twelve years may seem like a long time to you, but it's not. These past twelve years have flown by bringing with them many happy times ~like being able to talk again after all the months of therapy, learning to ride your bike, killing your first deer and accepting Jesus as your Saviour.

Of course, those years have also brought some scary and sad times ~ like falling into the car and biting the inside of your mouth open which required over 25 stitches, ripping your hand open on a piece of jagged wood and the passing of Maw Maw and Paw. We've even seen some funny times ~ like learning to "gobble your gizzard" like Daddy, trying to cook Ramen Noodles in the microwave without water ~ boy, was that a real stinker! and watching Copper fight with the broom under my bed ~ crazy dog!

Daddy and I have always tried to make our home a safe haven for you. A place where you find LOVE, HAPPINESS, SAFETY, TOGETHERNESS and THE LORD. We both pray that you will take this year and use it wisely. Don't waste your time on nonsense. Grow closer to the Lord, seek Him daily. We will do all we can to help you, but the Lord is the one that truly can help.

Psalm 55:16 As for me,I will call upon God; and the LORD shall save me.
Jeremiah 33:3 Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.


Happy Birthday, my Sweet Son!